You still think that online dating is something that can be done for fun only? Oh, no, my dear friend, such type of dating can appear to be very promising nowadays. Yes, you are right, it used to be unpredictable and too anonymous ten or more years ago and people who took part in it almost never met because the risk to get disappointed was too high. Those who found enough courage to bring online romance into reality sometimes turned into happy couples who are still together.
Today if you are looking for hot Russian ladies and would prefer to marry one of them instead of looking for a partner in your country the Internet will definitely be the only solution. Some of you who live in bigger American or European cities can meet enough Russians in the streets, clubs and malls but men who work and live in small and remote places have no other way out.
The first message you send to Russian women is very important. It is quite similar to the rule of three seconds when a person makes the first impression about you and it is almost impossible to change it later. So it would be much wiser for you to put your best forward in the very beginning and to make a solid foundation for the following communication.
OK, so what should a first message be like? You are supposed to introduce yourself and to let a woman know that you are interested in her. That’s it. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? But why should it be complicated?
We would recommend you to avoid using too many compliments and metaphors – but please don’t write something absolutely plain. Just greet her, tell your name (nobody cares that she will see it in your profile – introducing yourself is a matter of courtesy) and say frankly that she is attractive, good-looking and nice and you would like to know her better. In the 99% cases such approach is absolutely enough for beginning a conversation.
Usually the next step between Russian girls and foreign men is the time spent for chatting and (typically by the end) video communication. Don’t hurry to invite her or to book tickets to Russia. Talk to her more at first and try to find out if she is sincere and if she is what you have been looking for. It should be useful for you both.
The video conversation is kind of a final rehearsal before a very responsible and important step. Don’t miss it!
Finally you are both ready to meet in real life. After weeks or months (the second option seems to be wiser) you are going to learn what Russian dating is like. If you have already seen her in Skype you already know what she looks like, what is her voice and so on and so forth. It means that real meeting should not make you be worry and be afraid – vice versa, be sure. It is you who are the man and it is you who is going to change her life for better.
We also suggest that you read about the things that disappoint Russian women and take it into consideration. Anyway, if she agreed to meet you in reality you can be almost completely sure in the eventual success!