Foreigners often think that Russian dating is something easy for them because Russian women would agree on absolutely anything – they say that Russian men abuse them, beat and disrespect and poor girls are waiting for a prince from amazing West to take them away…
Such approach does not work because of two reasons:
1. Russian men are not that bad as you think.
2. Russian girls see no sense in dating men from abroad if they are completely the same to the Russian ones.
Why are they so cute?
A Russian girl gets into a very tough competition from early childhood – she is being brought up to be a lady, a real princess. A girl is taught to look feminine and beautiful every day as well as to be a good housewife.
If Western people look the way Russian ladies are brought up they would probably be deeply shocked – a kid in America or Europe has a lot of spare time and they are not pressed that much. However, girls from Russia get a very serious advantage from the very childhood – they are well disciplined and used to harsh life.
Russian tradition consider that a woman should always be charming – it does not matter if she is sick, tired, not in good mood etc. Nothing matters in such a case. Each woman is supposed to be a lady here.
Such situation appeared long-long ago. Russia
has always been fighting with other nations and thousands and even millions of men died during each such war and it was very difficult for a woman to find a husband. In the 20th century and earlier people were not that free in moving abroad. Today we all can choose the place to live but the traditions stay the same.
What a man should do for a Russian woman?
If you think that dating with a woman from Russia
is usually based on money you are deeply mistaken. Well, it is a fact that Russians appreciate generosity but it does not mean that they are going to use you just sucking the money out.
The main trait of character that a man should have is kindness. Women from Russia are often unhappy because their husbands are not sensitive enough. Russian men are not much interested in having children, they usually marry women just because the time has come.
Don’t even try to lie to Russian women – they perfectly feel when you are insincere. But if you open your heart to a girl from Russia she will make you the happiest man in the world.